Rules of Love

1. What rules dictate the behavior of young men and women in relationships today?
Some of the rules that dictate the behavior of dating is actually going out to dates. These things also include making the opposite gender happy. The males are usually the first one to make the move. However, things have sort of change but still. Also the males are the ones that have to be the bigger person sometimes in order to make the relationship work.
The environment in where you live also decides the rules because if you live in a ghetto neighborhood, you either be the controlled or the one controlling.


2. Name a situation in which the rules have clearly been violated. In other words, what are things "nice girls" just don't do? What are things "nice guys" just don't do?
"nice girls" don't back stack or cheat and neither does "nice boys". If these rules are violated they are just not the same. So they wouldn't be called the the "nice" person.

3. What are the possible consequences for breaking these rules?
More than likely you will be dumped. The other gender will get mad and will except you to make it up to him or her depending on if you want it to work. Bringing flowers or doing a favor for him or her. Making things up is usually done. Most of the time the males have to do it. The reason for this is because its just one of the "rules". It is also enforced through TV, dramas, and movies. All of these shows show how the male has to seek out the girl and present her something very emotional and romantic. Most the time no a days males don't really do that. Heck! So people danced on their wedding. So that shows you how much change is already taking affect.

4. Where do these rules come from? Who "invented" them and who enforces them?
These rules were invented by generations of stereotypes and criticism. It was also created from popular people who think what should and should not be done. People that follow this just wants to do what "cool" people do. Thus creating a change and a trend. This is also how fashion is made every year. Things change according to what seems to be in "style".